Category Archives: Submission

Leading *is* serving.

In my last post I pointed out the pattern of complementarians defining headship as service in practice, and leadership in theory.  Dr Raymond Force puts this into numbers as 99% service and 1% leadership, but the message is that leadership … Continue reading

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Raymond Force, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader, Submission | 42 Comments

Abigail’s daughters.

3 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see … Continue reading

Posted in Pastor Doug Wilson, Servant Leader, Submission | 212 Comments

Boldly inoffensive.

Note:  This started as a comment on Cane Caldo’s blog, and has been slightly cleaned up and modified into post form. In Real Men Don’t Impede Her Desires, Cane Caldo explains: Now, once in a great while a man will … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Cane Caldo, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Douglass Moo, Dr. John Piper, Dr. Wayne Grudem, Fatherhood, Pastor Doug Wilson, Pastor Tim Bayly, Submission, Tim and Kathy Keller, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye | 202 Comments

Wife beaters and the prairie muffins who love them.

Pastor Wilson has a response of sorts up to some of my recent posts. In the meantime, my original 21 theses had apparently been responded to here, which I just now read in the writing of this post, and I am … Continue reading

Posted in Domestic Violence, Headship, Pastor Doug Wilson, Submission | 180 Comments

C.S. Lewis on the erotic necessity of submission.

In response to my last post reader Gaius Marcius was kind enough to point out the C.S. Lewis quote on erotic necessity: Lewis’s phrase ‘erotic necessity’ is not from That Hideous Strength, but from his Spectator article ‘Equality’ in 1943, … Continue reading

Posted in C.S. Lewis, Game, Pastor Doug Wilson, Submission, Ugly Feminists | 73 Comments