Category Archives: She’s the boss.

A picture of Southern Baptist marriage.

If you’ve ever wondered what a “complementarian” Southern Baptist marriage looks like, wonder no more.  Behold, the Servant Leader: H/T Cane Caldo

Posted in Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Servant Leader, She's the boss., Southern Baptist Convention, Ugly Feminists, You can't make this stuff up | 285 Comments

She’s the boss, you’re a guest.

As I’ve been looking at more of Pastor Doug Wilson’s books I’ve noticed that some time around 2004 (perhaps earlier*) he added a new chapter to his theology of marriage.  According to Wilson’s new theology, headship and submission doesn’t apply … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. John Piper, Pastor Doug Wilson, Pastor Matt Chandler, She's the boss., The Gospel Coalition, Traditional Conservatives | 148 Comments

Complementarian soul essence.

Some readers of my recent series on the book Every Man’s Marriage may feel that I’ve unfairly lumped Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker in with complementarians. After all, their book teaches that the wife is the master, and that the … Continue reading

Posted in Complementarian, Denial, Every Man's Marriage, Fred Stoeker, Servant Leader, She's the boss., Stephen Arterburn, Traditional Conservatives, Wife worship | 45 Comments

She’s the boss, child torture edition.

David and Louise Turpin are accused of chaining up and starving their 13 children.  This is understandably a huge story for the media, but it is also one that presents a difficult challenge.  All of the information I’ve seen to … Continue reading

Posted in Cuckoldry, She's the boss., Turning a blind eye | 47 Comments

Gotta ask the boss, Christian edition.

In the discussion of Gotta ask the boss, commenter AnonS described a man up group he found via his local mega church: Local mega church had a small group listing for a ‘radical men’s mentoring group’ that I emailed for … Continue reading

Posted in Ask the boss, Attacking headship, Book of Oprah, Radical Mentoring, Regi Campbell, She's the boss. | 149 Comments