Category Archives: Servant Leader

Modern Christian teachers of the lesson in The Wedding of Sir Gawain.

In The Wedding of Sir Gawain we learn that what women want is sovereynté (control).  If a husband loves his wife, he will grant her the sovereynté that she covets.  As a result of her loving husband granting her sovereynté, the wife will … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Chivalry, Complementarian, Dr. Richard L. Strauss, Pastor Doug Wilson, Reforming Marriage, Romantic Love, Servant Leader, Submission, The Real Feminists, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Wife worship | 485 Comments

Headship is unchivalrous.

Last week I shared the tale of Sir Gawain and the Green Knight.  Today I’ll share the tale of The Wedding of Sir Gawain.  I fear that fans of last week’s tale will be disappointed to find that today’s tale … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Chivalry, Headship, Infogalactic, Servant Leader, Submission, Traditional Conservatives | 70 Comments

How to creep out your wife.

Sheila Gregoire at Authentic Manhood coaches frustrated Christian husbands on how to seduce their wives in In Search of the Secret Switch.  To her credit, she admits upfront that she has no idea how to actually do such a thing: … Continue reading

Posted in Authentic Manhood, Beta Orbiter, Complementarian, Game, Servant Leader, Sheila Gregoire, Uncategorized | 264 Comments

If mama ain’t happy

A few weeks back I quoted a post from Pastor Doug Wilson castigating Christian men for listening to pastors and living by the rule if mama ain’t happy (emphasis mine): When a false definition of servant leadership is mandated for the … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Pastor Doug Wilson, Reforming Marriage, Servant Leader, Wife worship | 84 Comments

Now get out there and reject passivity!

Complementarians have the problem of wanting to seem biblically traditional, while avoiding actually being so.  The goal is to create something separate from formal feminism/egalitarianism, while avoiding offending feminist sensibilities.  This has led complementarians to invent a host of weasel … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Denial, Servant Leader, You can't make this stuff up | 125 Comments