Category Archives: Servant Leader

How should a Christian husband go about instilling fear in his wife?*

Pastor Doug Wilson writes** in The Great Servant Leadership Mistake (emphasis mine): So what would a genuine servant leadership result in? If it were the real deal, the result would be a greater likelihood of the wife being willing to refer … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Headship, Pastor Doug Wilson, Servant Leader, Submission | 72 Comments

Complementarian contempt for the servant’s heart.

As I’ve noted before complementarians use an especially cynical term to deny headship.  The term is servant leader, and while the individual words are right, the meaning of the phrase is not headship.  But the cynicism of the term goes … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Disrespecting Respectability, Pastor Doug Wilson, Servant Leader, Ugly Feminists | 64 Comments

Defenseless

Sheila Gregoire has a post about a twitter fight she and another Christian feminist (Julie Anne) had with a complementarian Southern Baptist pastor (Steve Camp).  Sheila and Julie Anne were defending an article denying headship and instead arguing for mutual … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Headship, Pastor Doug Wilson, Pastor Matt Chandler, Pastor Steve Camp, Rebellion, Servant Leader, Sheila Gregoire, Southern Baptist Convention, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Ugly Feminists | 145 Comments

A picture of Southern Baptist marriage.

If you’ve ever wondered what a “complementarian” Southern Baptist marriage looks like, wonder no more.  Behold, the Servant Leader: H/T Cane Caldo

Posted in Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Servant Leader, She's the boss., Southern Baptist Convention, Ugly Feminists, You can't make this stuff up | 285 Comments

Modern Christian teachers of the lesson in The Wedding of Sir Gawain.

In The Wedding of Sir Gawain we learn that what women want is sovereynté (control).  If a husband loves his wife, he will grant her the sovereynté that she covets.  As a result of her loving husband granting her sovereynté, the wife will … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Chivalry, Complementarian, Dr. Richard L. Strauss, Pastor Doug Wilson, Reforming Marriage, Romantic Love, Servant Leader, Submission, The Real Feminists, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Wife worship | 489 Comments