Category Archives: Lowering The Boom

Reworking Malachi 2:16 for our feminist era (part 1).

Posted on October 5, 2016 by Dalrock

I’ve written previously about the modern Christian cross-dressing view of marriage, where wives are in absolute headship and regularly need to give their husbands wakeup calls to establish their authority.  While wives punishing disobedient husbands is a universal modern Christian … Continue reading →

Posted in Attacking headship, Church Apathy About Divorce, Crossdressing Theology, Disrespecting Respectability, Divorce, Fireproof, Grey Divorce, Joel and Kathy Davisson, Lowering The Boom, Marriage, New Morality, Rebellion, selling divorce, Threatpoint, Turning a blind eye, War Room | 114 Comments

Not listening.

Posted on January 29, 2016 by Dalrock

A few readers have challenged my observation that when complementarians say husbands are guilty of “not listening” to their wives what they mean is husbands aren’t doing what the wife says.  I’ve recently offered multiple examples where complementarians do this … Continue reading →

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Bill Bennett, Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Denial, Domestic Violence, Dr. David Clarke, Fireproof, Focus on the Family, Glenn Stanton, Headship, Joel and Kathy Davisson, Lowering The Boom, Not Listening, Rebellion, Submission, Threatpoint, Tim and Kathy Keller, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Wake-up call | 108 Comments

FotF and Dr. Hegstrom: Check your male privilege.

Posted on October 26, 2015 by Dalrock

Screaming abuse is a brilliant feminist tool to keep husbands compliant because while there are some abusive men who mistreat women, feminists know they can appeal to men as a group to do pretty much anything to try to help … Continue reading →

Posted in Attacking headship, Domestic Violence, Dr. David Clarke, Dr. Paul Hegstrom, Dr. Willard Harley, Duluth Model, Feminists, Focus on the Family, Joel and Kathy Davisson, Lowering The Boom, Marriage, Rebellion, Submission, Threatpoint, Wake-up call | 177 Comments

Unhappy? Make your husband put a deposit into Dr. Harley’s Bank.

Posted on June 4, 2015 by Dalrock

Commenter Trust asked if I would give my thoughts on a post by Willard F. Harley, Jr., Ph.D. titled When to call it quits (Part 1).   Dr. Harley explains that up to 80% of divorces are caused by what … Continue reading →

Posted in Book of Oprah, Divorce, Dr. Willard Harley, Foolishness, Game, Lowering The Boom, Marriage, New Morality, Romantic Love, selling divorce, Threatpoint, Wake-up call | 671 Comments

The wake-up call.

Posted on March 3, 2014 by Dalrock

Even as wives are commanded to submit to the authority of their husbands, the husband is called to a far higher standard of Christ-like love and devotion toward the wife. — Dr. Albert Mohler, President of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary … Continue reading →

Posted in Albert Mohler, Attacking headship, Book of Oprah, FamilyLife, Focus on the Family, Joel and Kathy Davisson, Lowering The Boom, Mark Driscoll, New Morality, Rebellion, Submission, Threatpoint, Wake-up call | 337 Comments