Category Archives: Headship

Headship is unchivalrous.

Last week I shared the tale of Sir Gawain and the Green Knight.  Today I’ll share the tale of The Wedding of Sir Gawain.  I fear that fans of last week’s tale will be disappointed to find that today’s tale … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Chivalry, Headship, Infogalactic, Servant Leader, Submission, Traditional Conservatives | 70 Comments

Headship tomorrow and headship yesterday, but never headship today.

“The rule is, jam to-morrow and jam yesterday—but never jam to-day.” “It must come sometimes to ‘jam to-day,’” Alice objected. “No, it ca’n’t,” said the Queen. “It’s jam every other day: to-day isn’t any other day, you know” ― Lewis … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Courageous, Disrespecting Respectability, Headship, Pastor Doug Wilson, Reforming Marriage, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye | 144 Comments

Links to posts for Christian husbands.

In response to Winning her over without a word. Larry Kummer of Fabius Maximus asked: This is great commentary. For those of us unfamiliar with these discussions among modern conservative Christians, have you written about how these men should act in marriage — … Continue reading

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Self inflicted reframe.

BillyS noted in response to Leading *is* serving that Christ only washed his disciples’ feet once: …Jesus washed their feet once, not throughout His time on the earth! Cane Caldo advised against changing the subject in this way: I recommend … Continue reading

Posted in Cane Caldo, Complementarian, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader | 86 Comments

Leading *is* serving.

In my last post I pointed out the pattern of complementarians defining headship as service in practice, and leadership in theory.  Dr Raymond Force puts this into numbers as 99% service and 1% leadership, but the message is that leadership … Continue reading

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Raymond Force, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader, Submission | 42 Comments