Category Archives: Frigidity

Step up, so they don’t have to (part 1).

There is a well loved refrain, especially among complementarians, that men need to “step up”.  This is a deceptive phrase, because in reality the objective is to allow men to avoid what is difficult and uncomfortable.  It is false bravado … Continue reading

Posted in Acts 29, Complementarian, Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, Dave and Ann Wilson, Denial, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. David Clarke, Dr. Richard L. Strauss, Dr. Russell Moore, Focus on the Family, Frigidity, Glenn Stanton, Legitimacy, Manliness, Marriage, Military, Pastor Matt Chandler, Rape Culture, Rebellion, Servant Leader, Social Justice Warriors, The Gospel Coalition, The only real man in the room, The Real Feminists, Tim and Kathy Keller, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Weak men screwing feminism up | 154 Comments

The unexpected challenge to modern Christian orthodoxy.

There is very often an honesty in secular media that is striking when compared with modern Christian teaching.  Rare News reports on the ladies at the view discussing wives withholding sex to punish their husbands for disagreeing with them: “Well, … Continue reading

Posted in Albert Mohler, Attacking headship, Complementarian, Dave and Ann Wilson, Disrespecting Respectability, Donald Trump, Dr. Helen, Dr. Russell Moore, Frigidity, Instapundit, Marriage, Miserliness, Pastor Doug Wilson, The Atlantic, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Ugly Feminists, Weak men screwing feminism up, Whispers, Wife worship | 180 Comments

Rubbing body parts together.

Deti noted in the comments of the last post that there is a deep aversion in modern Christians to the idea that both spouses (not just husbands) owe sex to each other, as outlined in 1 Cor 7. Pastors and … Continue reading

Posted in Albert Mohler, Book of Oprah, Dr. Russell Moore, Frigidity, Marriage, New Morality, Romantic Love, Turning a blind eye, Wife worship | 107 Comments

Dr. Russell Moore: Wives don’t sin (part 2)

 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. … Continue reading

Posted in Albert Mohler, Complementarian, Daily Mail, Dave and Ann Wilson, Dr. Russell Moore, FamilyLife, Frigidity, Marriage, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Wife worship | 50 Comments

How to tell if you are a godly man.

Sunshine Thiry decided to test to see if it is true that when complementarians say “listen to your wife” what they mean is “do what she says”. Is it true that what complementarians mean by “listening to your wife” is agreeing with … Continue reading

Posted in Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Dave and Ann Wilson, FamilyLife, Frigidity, Game, Marriage, Miserliness, New Morality, Not Listening, Romantic Love, Turning a blind eye, Wake-up call, Wife worship | 257 Comments