Category Archives: Frame

Self inflicted reframe.

BillyS noted in response to Leading *is* serving that Christ only washed his disciples’ feet once: …Jesus washed their feet once, not throughout His time on the earth! Cane Caldo advised against changing the subject in this way: I recommend … Continue reading

Posted in Cane Caldo, Complementarian, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader | 86 Comments

Leading *is* serving.

In my last post I pointed out the pattern of complementarians defining headship as service in practice, and leadership in theory.  Dr Raymond Force puts this into numbers as 99% service and 1% leadership, but the message is that leadership … Continue reading

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Raymond Force, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader, Submission | 42 Comments

99% servant, 1% leader.

In Exactly What Does it Mean for the Wife to Submit to Her Husband, pastor and Christian life coach Dr. Raymond Force explains that the reason women bristle at the New Testament verses on submission is that they mistakenly think the verses … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Raymond Force, Frame, Headship, Servant Leader, The only real man in the room, Turning a blind eye | 49 Comments

Effortless

soulthirstjc puts on a clinic in Christian feminist reframing in response to Reframing Christian marriage part 2: rebelling wives aren’t to blame for their own rebellion. Research shows that husbands who do take part in household chores, cleaning. etc. are … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Denial, Feminists, Frame, Headship, Rebellion, Rebuilding the mound, Submission | 293 Comments

Why we don’t need Sanger: Give the rebellious wife what she demands or the baby gets it!

Margaret Sanger is long gone, but her life’s work of fomenting feminist rebellion remains alive and well.  We don’t need Sanger, because we have (collectively) taken up the mantle of her and her pioneering colleagues.  Feminist rebellion is now a … Continue reading

Posted in Denial, Envy, Feminists, Frame, Margaret Sanger, Marriage, Rebellion, Rebuilding the mound, Traditional Conservatives, Ugly Feminists | 165 Comments