Category Archives: Crossdressing Theology

A challenge to traditionalists.

Commenter thedeti wrote in response to A shortage doesn’t indicate a buyer’s market. I seem to remember Cane Caldo saying something like this. I had Cane’s comments in mind when I wrote the post but didn’t have the link handy.  Cane kindly … Continue reading

Posted in Cane Caldo, Chivalry, Courtly Love, Crossdressing Theology, Death of courtship, Finding a Spouse, Game, Judging the performance, Traditional Conservatives | 301 Comments

It started with a whimper (a servant leader is born).

Bdash77 pointed me* to the book Every Man’s Marriage, an Every Man’s Guide to Winning the heart of a woman.  This is the follow up book to the wildly popular Every Man’s Battle, and is by the same authors (Stephen … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Disrespecting Respectability, Divorce, Fred Stoeker, Servant Leader, Stephen Arterburn, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye, Wake-up call | 89 Comments

Their love for crossdressing is sincere.

Reader Swanny River commented on the zeal conservative Christians have for the husbands winning their wives without a word: Take it from a submitted husband, the church has no limits and continue burdening husbands, even once they go to bed … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Disrespecting Respectability, Dr. Raymond Force, Rebellion | 26 Comments

Winning her over without a word.

3 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your respectful and pure … Continue reading

Posted in Attacking headship, Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Dr. Raymond Force, Fireproof, Traditional Conservatives, Turning a blind eye | 69 Comments

Submission with a twist, and denying rebellion.

Pastor Doug Wilson has a new post up titled 21 Theses on Submission in Marriage (HT Hmm).  Taken individually, most of the theses are good, and parts of the post are excellent. For brevity I’ll focus on what I see … Continue reading

Posted in Complementarian, Crossdressing Theology, Disrespecting Respectability, Duluth Model, Envy, Esther, Headship, Marriage, Mary Kassian, Pastor Doug Wilson, Rebellion, Submission, Tim and Kathy Keller, Turning a blind eye | 294 Comments