Category Archives: Attacking headship

Leading *is* serving.

In my last post I pointed out the pattern of complementarians defining headship as service in practice, and leadership in theory.  Dr Raymond Force puts this into numbers as 99% service and 1% leadership, but the message is that leadership … Continue reading

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99% servant, 1% leader.

In Exactly What Does it Mean for the Wife to Submit to Her Husband, pastor and Christian life coach Dr. Raymond Force explains that the reason women bristle at the New Testament verses on submission is that they mistakenly think the verses … Continue reading

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Does God want us to complain?

anonymous_ng linked to a post by pastor and Christian life coach Dr. Raymond Force, titled Where Men Blow It.  Force explains that Scripture teaches us that God doesn’t mind it when we complain, and therefore Christian husbands shouldn’t discourage their … Continue reading

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Headship makes all the difference.

Commenter James asks if there isn’t at least a kernel of truth to Stanton & Gilder’s view of men, women, and marriage, even if they have in the process mangled this kernel of truth: Isn’t there some sense where the … Continue reading

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Stanton’s dilemma

Glenn Stanton closes his article Manhood is not natural* with an odd question: The question is, how can we recover manhood today? We must find the answer. For it is not only the fate of men that is at stake, … Continue reading

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