Category Archives: Whispers

Commitment issues.

The dominant, unchallenged narrative is that men have problems with commitment, while women are naturally inclined to commit for life.  Yet the difference between the dominant narrative and reality couldn’t be more stark.  Women in the western world are obsessed with … Continue reading

Posted in Choice Addiction, Cracks in the narrative, Denial, selling divorce, Whispers | 208 Comments

A bridge too far.

The Dalrock research department* brought the latest divorce empowerment movie to my attention: My first thought was that we are due for another epic divorce fantasy (courtesy of Oprah of course), with Eat Pray Love showing its age.  On the … Continue reading

Posted in Choice Addiction, Divorce, Feral Females, Fireproof, Having it all, Moxie, New Morality, selling divorce, Slut, Whispers | 155 Comments

ROCD: A clinical case of the Whispers.

Business Insider has a new article today titled How To Know If You Have The New Condition Called ‘Relationship OCD’.  The article suggests the problem is rare, but what they are describing sounds like a clinical version of something I call the whispers, … Continue reading

Posted in Book of Oprah, Choice Addiction, selling divorce, Whispers | 139 Comments

A husband’s plea to Catholic Answers Forum: Stop sowing discord in my house!

A little over a week ago a Catholic woman by the handle Be Courageous was disturbed that her husband wasn’t properly submitting to her headship, and decided to break out the detonator with a forum post Is There Hope for … Continue reading

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Book of Oprah, Catholic Answers Forum, Church Apathy About Divorce, Feminists, New Morality, Rebellion, Wake-up call, Whispers | 474 Comments

Fragging Christian Headship

Lord God, as well, I pray for those men who are here that are cowards.  They are silent passive impish worthless men.  They are making a mess of everything in their life.  And they are such sweet little boys that … Continue reading

Posted in Armchair Husbands, Attacking headship, Courageous, FamilyLife, Feminists, Fireproof, Mark Driscoll, Marriage, Rebellion, Submission, Whispers | 291 Comments