Category Archives: Post Marital Spinsterhood

Newspeak: scrubbing the English language.

I did a search on the term unwed mother when writing my post on Katie Price.  I wanted to make sure I wasn’t using the term incorrectly.  Click here to see the definition I found.  I did a double take … Continue reading

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Eat, Pray, Cats

There are two competing narratives when it comes to women divorcing.  The first is the feminist narrative:  I don’t need a man! or A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle!  The other way to see it … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Divorce, Feminists, Grey Divorce, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 123 Comments

Sudden outbreak of patriarchy in the occupy wallstreet camp.

Several readers have pointed out the news stories on the woman who has ditched her roles as wife and mother for the excitement of tramping around in the Occupy Wall Street movement.  Even Captain Capitalism saw this story and was … Continue reading

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87 first dates.

Susan Walsh of Hooking Up Smart took a high volume of aimed fire in the comments section of my post  All the lonely feminist spinsters.  I’m still working on my take on the 80/20 question the dogpile discussion was about.   To … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 139 Comments

Wisdom of a six year old.

Our daughter is of the misconception that I can fix anything.  Whenever anything is broken, she says to my wife: Don’t worry, daddy can fix it! This came out in an unexpected way the other day when the two of … Continue reading

Posted in Divorce, Fatherhood, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 41 Comments

All the lonely feminist spinsters

I’ve lost count of the number of commenters who referenced the new Atlantic piece by aging feminist Kate Bolick titled All the single ladies.  Once I clicked on it and started to read it it was instantly clear why so … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse, Marriage, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 144 Comments

SMP searching costs and the unmourned death of courtship.

That’s why guys get married, so they can stop wooing. It’s exhausting to woo, you woo, you woo, and you woo, and then you’ve got to go: Whoa! –Paul Reiser, Mad About You Badger made an excellent point in his … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 110 Comments

Nothing is more subversive than the truth

The culture war is over.  Feminism won. Feminism has completed its long march through the institutions of the west.  Even the church is collaborating with an enthusiasm which would have made the Vichy French blush.  The war is over.  It … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Divorce, Feminists, Manosphere Humor, Marriage, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 186 Comments

The economics of divorce theft and exploitation, and why we should repeal unilateral no fault divorce.

Divorce theft is a common term in the manosphere, but I have noticed that there is some skepticism amongst our feminist guests on this concept (who often use the term in quotes).  I suspect they would be very surprised to … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Divorce, Feminists, Marriage, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 97 Comments

Why a woman’s age at time of marriage matters, and what this tells us about the apex fallacy

In my second post on Last One Down the Aisle Wins, I shared a chart on the effects of age at marriage on divorce rates from the NCHS: The basic relationship between a woman’s age at the time of marriage … Continue reading

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Divorce, Feminists, Grey Divorce, Marriage, Post Marital Spinsterhood | 123 Comments