Category Archives: Finding a Spouse

Women should reduce their expectations of courtship.

Posted on May 5, 2012 by

I originally posted this as a comment in the excellent discussion at CMD-N’s latest post Courting and the Evangelical American Princess.  Van Rooineck warned women of the unintended consequences of nuclear rejection: Memo to the “ladies” — If you are … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse | 191 Comments

Are young marriages doomed to divorce?

Posted on April 28, 2012 by

In part one of this series I proposed a model for women to skip the carousel and marry young, provided they can find a husband they are head over heels in love with and trust to lead them in life.  … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce, Finding a Spouse | 51 Comments

How young should a woman marry? (Part 1)

Posted on April 25, 2012 by

One of the common topics of the manosphere/androsphere is women setting about finding husbands in all of the wrong ways.  The most common mistake women are making today is wasting their youth and chastity pursuing everything but marriage, and then … Continue reading →

Posted in Finding a Spouse, Uncategorized | 270 Comments

Mentu is brutally funny!

Posted on April 24, 2012 by

Crass site/post warning, but if that doesn’t deter you check out 5 Easy Steps to Get Him to Propose: 1. Do your market research. Determine what the men you find attractive want in a wife, then give it to them. If … Continue reading →

Posted in Feminists, Finding a Spouse, Manosphere Humor | 82 Comments

Rules of the road for fornication.

Posted on March 30, 2012 by

Fly Fresh and Young (FFY) has a post where he ponders the morality of being a player, titled Are women “collateral damage”? (H/T In Bona Fida): Look, I love women. I love the chase, I love the seduction. I love that … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Denial, Finding a Spouse, Foolishness, Mark Driscoll | 253 Comments

How should Christian men respond to slutty women? Marry them!

Posted on January 23, 2012 by

Commenter Bob asked the following on Badger’s A Reply To Cadence on Sex, Commitment and Spinning Plates: I just have to say, as a Christian man, I find it near impossible not to have sex with Christian women by like the … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Finding a Spouse, Mark Driscoll | 273 Comments

Mark Driscoll’s feminist foolishness posing as Christian wisdom.

Posted on January 16, 2012 by

Several readers have asked that I share my perspective on Pastor Mark Driscoll’s recent Washington Post piece Why men need marriage.  Driscoll opens his contribution to the man up and marry career gal sluts genre with an anecdote about a … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Finding a Spouse, Foolishness, Mark Driscoll | 418 Comments

The weakened signal

Posted on January 8, 2012 by

Paul Murray recently made a comment which fits with a theory of mine on how men and women decide when to get married: PA is reading the situation at work completely wrong. I guarantee you that when one of the … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse, Marriage | 133 Comments

The College Boyfriend

Posted on January 6, 2012 by

The more I think about the way women approach the question of sexual morality and women’s sexual history, the more I’m convinced that women strongly tend to boil all of this down into two categories: Good girls. Sluts. So long … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse | 203 Comments

The one that got away.

Posted on January 4, 2012 by

My wife has been suggesting that I write a post on Katy Perry’s song/video: In the video we see an elderly Katy Perry who still mopes around pining for a high school boyfriend despite having grown old with a loyal … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Divorce, Finding a Spouse | 113 Comments