Category Archives: Choice Addiction

Commitment issues.

The dominant, unchallenged narrative is that men have problems with commitment, while women are naturally inclined to commit for life.  Yet the difference between the dominant narrative and reality couldn’t be more stark.  Women in the western world are obsessed with … Continue reading

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One at a time, please.

Aside from our inverting the roles of romantic love and marriage, another striking feature of our new view of sexual morality is the embrace of serial monogamy as the pinnacle of sexual virtue.  Indeed, serial monogamy is now generally considered … Continue reading

Posted in Choice Addiction, Feminists, Feral Females, New Morality, Serial Monogamy, Slut | 411 Comments

A bridge too far.

The Dalrock research department* brought the latest divorce empowerment movie to my attention: My first thought was that we are due for another epic divorce fantasy (courtesy of Oprah of course), with Eat Pray Love showing its age.  On the … Continue reading

Posted in Choice Addiction, Divorce, Feral Females, Fireproof, Having it all, Moxie, New Morality, selling divorce, Slut, Whispers | 155 Comments

ROCD: A clinical case of the Whispers.

Business Insider has a new article today titled How To Know If You Have The New Condition Called ‘Relationship OCD’.  The article suggests the problem is rare, but what they are describing sounds like a clinical version of something I call the whispers, … Continue reading

Posted in Book of Oprah, Choice Addiction, selling divorce, Whispers | 138 Comments

Dude, where’s my courtship?

She’s still her same fabulous self, but the edgy and exciting men are no longer magically appearing to take her out.  Clearly this is Amazon.com’s fault. Do you know any abnormal men?

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Death of courtship | 111 Comments