Category Archives: Choice Addiction

Godly unashamed unwed mothers.

Posted on May 8, 2012 by

The contrast between how modern Christians treat good faithful fathers and unrepentant unwed mothers is truly astounding.  For the latest installment of this, I offer you the CBN.com (Christian Broadcasting Network, 700 Club) article Janine Turner: Single Mothers Can Change … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Child Custody, Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Courageous, Denial, Foolishness, Glenn Stanton, Motherhood, Stantons Heroes | 282 Comments

Women should reduce their expectations of courtship.

Posted on May 5, 2012 by

I originally posted this as a comment in the excellent discussion at CMD-N’s latest post Courting and the Evangelical American Princess.  Van Rooineck warned women of the unintended consequences of nuclear rejection: Memo to the “ladies” — If you are … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse | 191 Comments

Dating Stanton’s Heroes

Posted on April 17, 2012 by

Call them what you will, grass widows, marriage challenged mamas, or Stanton’s heroes, the men at University of Man have dating them covered.  Keep in mind that I use the term dating, um, loosely.  If you aren’t interested in this … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Stantons Heroes, Uncategorized | 155 Comments

So Your Christian Wife Cheated on You

Posted on April 13, 2012 by

The other day I mentioned Christian Men’s Defense Network.  Given the familiar names in the discussion there and the nearly 700 clicks to his site in the stats since then I know that many of you have already gone over … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Divorce, Fireproof, Marriage | 45 Comments

Rules of the road for fornication.

Posted on March 30, 2012 by

Fly Fresh and Young (FFY) has a post where he ponders the morality of being a player, titled Are women “collateral damage”? (H/T In Bona Fida): Look, I love women. I love the chase, I love the seduction. I love that … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Denial, Finding a Spouse, Foolishness, Mark Driscoll | 253 Comments

Why so many wives wish their husbands would cheat.

Posted on March 11, 2012 by

A number of readers have pointed out the article on Huffington Post:  I Just Wish He Would Have An Affair!  Click the link for the full post, but in a nutshell it describes the surprisingly common phenomenon of wives expressing … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Divorce | 348 Comments

It’s just like running a restaurant

Posted on February 11, 2012 by

I took the family out for breakfast this morning and the place was unusually packed.  At the end of our meal I took the kids out to the car and my wife settled up the bill.  At the cash register … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Motherhood, Stantons Heroes | 222 Comments

How should Christian men respond to slutty women? Marry them!

Posted on January 23, 2012 by

Commenter Bob asked the following on Badger’s A Reply To Cadence on Sex, Commitment and Spinning Plates: I just have to say, as a Christian man, I find it near impossible not to have sex with Christian women by like the … Continue reading →

Posted in Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Finding a Spouse, Mark Driscoll | 273 Comments

Mark Driscoll’s feminist foolishness posing as Christian wisdom.

Posted on January 16, 2012 by

Several readers have asked that I share my perspective on Pastor Mark Driscoll’s recent Washington Post piece Why men need marriage.  Driscoll opens his contribution to the man up and marry career gal sluts genre with an anecdote about a … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Church Apathy About Divorce, Finding a Spouse, Foolishness, Mark Driscoll | 418 Comments

The weakened signal

Posted on January 8, 2012 by

Paul Murray recently made a comment which fits with a theory of mine on how men and women decide when to get married: PA is reading the situation at work completely wrong. I guarantee you that when one of the … Continue reading →

Posted in Aging Feminists, Choice Addiction, Finding a Spouse, Marriage | 133 Comments